6 Gifts You Should Never Give Your Daughter-In-Law

December is the most wonderful gift-giving time of the yearunless you have to buy something for a daughter-in-law with whom you have a difficult relationship. Even if you have a great relationship, the dance between a MIL and DIL can be a tricky one, and seemingly harmless, well-intentioned gifts can come off as loaded with innuendo. For that reason, you might want to steer clear of giving any of these.1. Exercise equipmentHand weights, fitness clothes, a yoga mat, a digital fitness trackertheyre all great gifts, except not for your DIL. Even if she is a fitness guru, steer clear. Instead of seeing great gear, shes likely to see you shaking your finger at her and telling her to, Cut down on the cookies and get off the couch! Any gift that could be perceived as a comment on her weight is a big no-no.2. Parenting guidesYou see a gift that can provide help, she sees you telling her what a crappy job shes doing as a mom. Yes, all parents need advice and guidance, but really, no daughter-in-law wants unsolicited parenting advice from her mother-in-law, especially during the holidays.3. UnderwearJust dont. Its too intimate and too weird coming from you. Even pajamas may be too much for some DILs. If you want to buy a cozy gift, try slippers, a bathrobe, or some bath salts and lotions.4. The wrong size clothingClothes are a great gift choice, but before you buy, make sure youve got your daughter-in-laws exact size. Clothing thats way too big or way too small screams, You dont see who I am at all!5. Political or self-help booksIf youre trying to make a point about your views, or what you think your DIL needs, this isnt the way to do it. With these gifts youre basically saying, You need to change! And no one likes hearing that.6. Cleaning suppliesEven if youve found the most fantastic spot-remover or dish detergent that smells heavenly, and you want everyone to know about it, pass it by as a gift. Your DIL wants to be appreciated and acknowledged for who she is. Cleaning supplies are just too utilitarian and impersonal no matter how good they small or look.Also From Grandparents.com:7 Must-Have Discussions With Your Daughter-In-Law8 Things Every Daughter-In-Law WantsWhat Does Your Daughter-In-Law Call You' -- This feed and its contents are the property of The Huffington Post, and use is subject to our terms. It may be used for personal consumption, but may not be distributed on a website.
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